Monday, May 28, 2012

Dare To Dream/Twin-Flame Relationships

I was speaking to a client this week, who was experiencing a dishonoring, and compromised relationship. I shared with her that it was only when I fully embraced that I was worthy to have a cherished love of my own, that my wish could have been answered by God and the angels. Having met my husband Pete, she said to me, “He is so wonderful, you are just one of the lucky ones.” I told her that it had nothing to do with luck and everything to do with the conviction and belief in my dreams. This made me think back to a Decree that I wrote to God in 2003 after extricating myself from a 22 year abusive marriage and then a four year deceitful, destructive relationship. For those who may not know, a Decree is a sacred pact that you make with God. It is much more binding than goal setting; as you vow with God, as your partner and witness, to hold tight to your statements. The first thing that I wrote was, “Thank you God for my Twin-Flame Relationship and marriage.” I knew that my two past abusive relationships had been soul mate relationships and along with love, they had brought great Karmic contrast, drama, and irritation. In this way they pushed my buttons and challenged me to grow. I also knew that once I transcended all the Karma, I would have the ability to attract my Twin-Flame Relationship; who is the divine completion of who I am. After writing this first statement, I paused for a moment, thinking about how extraordinary it would feel to be reunited with my Twin-Flame. Just then, the pen wrote, ‘I live in a comfortable home near the ocean.’ I do not know where this statement came from; as I certainly had never done automatic writing before and did not have the finances to own a beach home. The pen and I went on to write exactly what I dreamed for this beautiful relationship. I wrote, “ “My husband is loyal, kind, gentle, responsible and trustworthy. He makes me a priority. He has a great sense of humor and loves to make me laugh. He is affectionate in public. We work together, love traveling the world and we are supportive of one another.” Because this is a Twin-Flame Relationship, both parties would mirror and reflect these same attributes to one another. (To find out more about Twin-Flame Relationships which is your Divine complement in any space, time and dimension-book a seat at the Twin-Flame Relationship Workshop in Santa Barbara on July 14th; see details below.) When I had finished writing, the pen wrote on its own, ‘I have a wonderful healing practice and my clients and students love me and I love them.’ I looked at this last statement with great curiosity for I had never entertained the thought of studying alternative forms of healing. After I finished writing this Decree, I felt that this was a very significant document and that I would show it the importance that it deserved. I slept with it under my pillow, and read it out every morning and night. While I read it out, I visualized and felt in my heart what it would feel like to be with my Twin-Flame. I then honored and respected myself physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually to raise my energies and prepare myself to be with my beloved cherished husband. The following week after writing this Decree, I reconnected with a friend of mine who was a nurse. Unbeknownst to me, she was also a clairvoyant and a Reiki Master/Teacher. When we ‘synchronistically’ bumped into each other again, she looked at me with a knowing glance and said, ‘You were not ready before, but now you are spiritually ready to study Reiki. I have been sent to be your teacher.’ I studied and completed my Master/Teacher Degree in two disciplines of Reiki and opened my business Angel Healing House 3 months after writing my Decree. 6 months after writing my Decree, on September 20th, I was randomly invited to a ‘come as your favorite rock star party’. I went as Stevie Nicks from Fleetwood Mac. At the stroke of 7 o’clock the only Elvis at the party, my future husband Pete, walked in and 5 hours later we were still talking. Two days after we met, he drove me to his beach home on the Sunshine Coast and 3 days later he asked to marry me. Actually, he wanted to ask to marry me after 3 days, but he thought he would wait until 5 days. (There are so many more magical synchronicities attached to our meeting and I will recount the miraculous story in full at the Twin-Flame Relationship workshop on July 14th.) When I look over the grand adventure that Pete and I have been on ever since we met, we have known deep in our hearts that we are under the countenance, protection and guidance of God. Knowing that we could have whatever we wanted, we realized that the only way that our dreams could manifest for us, was by having a greater vision for our lives. Your greater vision starts with dreaming. Do you secretly have a huge dream inside of you? Perhaps you dream of a wonderful career in which you are recognized and financially remunerated working with like minded people? Do you wish a cherished, love relationship for yourself? Do you treat your dream like a new seedling, which needs extra care and attention to grow healthy and strong? Or do you let your dreams wither and languish as they go unattended, both hungry and thirsty? When we left Australia to come live in the States in 2008, Pete dreamed about working in the film industry. Knowing no-one in the film industry and with no job to go to, he took the burning desire in his heart and proceeded to ask God for signs for him to follow to realize his dream. After four years of hard work, diligence, determination, networking and focus to his dream, his journey has taken him to now working on his 3rdseason of the hit show “The Voice” in the credited position of Transportation Coordinator. This is not luck. This is setting focused attention in one’s heart and faithfully following the signs that God presents him. It is only by having dreams and having faith in them, that dreams ever come true. Remember prayer does not make faith work, faith makes prayer work. I have seen it over and over again in my 10 years as a Healing Practitioner that the majority of people who have physical and emotional illnesses, either do not nourish their dreams or have totally forgotten them. In fact, I believe that dreams are the enchantment that creates magic in our lives. So knowing this, what kind of life do you want to create? If you want a big outrageous life, then dream big. Remember dreams are aching to come true and waiting for someone to dream them into reality. Over and over again in our amazing marriage of the last 8 years, both Pete and I have seen the direct results of feeding, nurturing, believing and having faith that our dreams would manifest. Our secret is that every time God and angels have presented us with the next sign to making more of our dreams a reality, we have faithfully stepped forward; and miracles have occurred. Dreams no longer seem like a feat of magic to us; as we know all that we have to do is have the conviction and the belief in our hearts, and let God and the angels worry about the details as to how and when they will manifest. Every day when we look into each other’s eyes, Pete and I know that dreams really do come true. If you have forgotten had to dream and need a refresher course, call me: 831 277 3716. Love and Angel Blessings, Claire Candy Hough Angel Healing House 831 277 3716 candy@angelhealinghouse.com www.angelhealinghouse.com

Wednesday, May 2, 2012

I Am An Angelic Walk-In

The subject for this month’s blog has been brewing for awhile, but it never seemed the right time to write about it. I love how my angelic family orchestrates connections and opportunities to clearly show me the signs when to step forth. Well, that happened this month. Through a LinkedIn connection, I received a letter from a lady who found the strength to leave a dishonoring relationship, and she is now starting over again and opening up her own Healing Practice. She wrote that she was very impressed with my many accomplishments, testimonials, and the numerous and varied things that I do through my business Angel Healing House. As she is starting her life again, she asked if I had any tips or advice that I could give her, to help make her life easy. What got my attention was the word ‘easy’. As I replied to her, I thought to myself, how often do we look at successful people, and have a tendency to enviously look at the end result and all their successes, and never take the time to wonder what the person’s journey was like along their way to their success. Below is the letter I wrote to her. Dear ______, Thank you so much for your email. When I read that you wanted some tips on how to make your life easy, it made me think back over my own journey, to where I find myself today. And if there is one word that I would not use to describe my life, it would be easy. But just like the most accomplished sailors do not learn how to sail in calm waters, the hardships and challenges we draw to ourselves to overcome, often leads to our greatness. Along my journey, I drew to myself an emotionally and mentally abusive marriage for 22 years, in which I allowed myself to be co-dependent and became a controlled silent victim of bullying and abuse. In essence, I basically forgot who I was. Anorexic, deeply depressed, and barely able to keep my life force energy going, I continually asked God every day to help me to exit my life. And then, in January of 2003, at the age of 48, I had what is known as a ‘Walk-In’ experience; where the existing soul in the body ‘Walks-Out’ and goes up to God with honors, and a spiritually advanced soul ‘Walks In’, in order to be of humanitarian service to the Planet. This 100% agreement by both souls happens in adulthood, so that Walk-Ins do not have to start in infancy and lose valuable time growing up. In this way, we can immediately start holding massive amounts of light for the Planet. (This was particularly crucial in the last 10 years, in order to transform negativity and to help the world to shift.) The exchange between souls often takes place during a surgery, an accident or deep meditation, which was when my exchange occurred. Mine was an angelic soul exchange, as I come from the angelic realm. (To gain further information on Walk-Ins, I recommend reading, ‘Earth Angels’ by Doreen Virtue, ‘Welcome to Planet Earth’ by Hannah Beaconsfield, “Walk-Ins Soul Exchange by Karyn K Mitchell and ‘Strangers Among Us’ by Ruth Montgomery.) When I ‘walked-in’, I knew my mission, I knew why I had come back. Since then, I have been laser beam focused on creating and manifesting those dreams into physical reality. 9 months after I walked-in, I drew to myself my Twin-Flame husband Pete. We met on a Saturday and 5 days later he asked to marry me, and we have been on this wonderful physical adventure together ever since. You asked me if I have any advice or tips to impart, to make your life easy. People look at my husband Pete and myself and our life and often say, ‘how it is possible that the two of you were able to accomplish so much in such a short amount of time.’ Our secret is very simple. Every time we heard the voice of God tell us to step forward along the path, even though we did not know precisely where we were going, we stepped forward in faith. And every time we stepped forward, we have been given the next piece of the puzzle towards realizing our dreams. We see ourselves as faithful children of God, co-creating with His will. Is this way of life easy? Far from it! But the rewards are miraculous, magical and more extraordinary than our limited physical minds can ever comprehend. In order to fully realize our dreams manifesting into reality meant that Pete and I had to sell our beloved beach house along the Sunshine Coast of Australia and go live in the States: A.) at the beginning of the recession. B.) without jobs to go to and C.) knowing no-one. Since we have been States, the challenges have been enormous. But knowing that we are God's children, and by following His word, He has provided for us every step of the way. Since 2008, four years later, my husband has realized his dream of working in the film industry. I have published the first of my 6 books, am an international radio host, an inspirational speaker, a licensed Reiki Master/Teacher practitioner through my beloved business Angel Healing House; which is about to celebrate its 10th year anniversary. Pete and I have also written the screen play for one of my books; which the angels tell me, will be made into an absolutely beautiful movie. This was one of the major reasons that spirit knew that we had to move to the States, in order for my husband to build up the connections and get established in the film industry. Without his expertise and connection in the industry, our screen play, and ultimately the beautiful movie that it will be, would never have seen the light of day had we remained in Australia. My greatest advice for you is not to ask for an easy life. Ask for God to give you the most beneficial of ways to strengthen your courage, test your faith and challenge you to fearlessly hold on to and follow your dreams. For once your dreams come true, it is precisely because of those challenges and hardships suffered along the way, that will make the realization of your dreams that much sweeter. Having lived this way since I re-emerged in physical form in 2003, I have counseled others to wait on the will of God and not to try to control life. (For you know, it never was ours to control in the first place.) In every moment I know that God is in the details. He hears all prayers and will bring all of us the greatest and most beneficial solution to all our concerns...in His timing. By not focusing on forcing and controlling the how and when of life to happen, one practices the Art of Allowance in order to perceive the signs from the Divine right in front of us. Yet, to co-create magic in our lives, one has to go beyond just seeing the signs. Living in Faith and immediately acting upon those signs is often the difference between a fulfilled life and a life lived in compromise. Every time God and the Angels have led my husband and myself to the precipice of the mountain and asked us to jump off, we have jumped; and God and the angels have helped us to soar and fly so much higher than we could have ever possibly imagined. I would wish you good luck in staring over again, but life is not about luck. It is about firmly establishing your heart-felt intentions and then co-creating with God. By following His signs, both easy and hard, you will allow Him free reign to steer you to all the miracles and blessings that you can possibly wish for. Sending you Love and Angel Blessings, Claire Candy Hough Licensed Reiki Master/Teacher and Angel Practitioner Angel Healing House 831 277 3716 candy@angelhealinghouse.com www.angelhealinghouse.com